[Jan Scholten]
Fehlende Kraft eigene Autonomie zu wahren (gegen Vater), führt zu drohendem Verlust des Selbstwertgefühls; daraus evtl. distanzierte Haltung zu allen Werten im Leben (Ironie + Infragestellen
von Moral und religiösen Motivationen); evtl. schwacher Vater ohne Autonomie/ohne Selbstkontrolle, der sich selbst + Pat. nicht helfen kann.
Analysis:
Powerless to remain independent from father
Powerless to keep independence and self-worth
Powerless to give meaning freely
Father: helps to keep their autonomy
too weak to keep his autonomy
has only formal independence
has only formal self-control
in a gloomy state
diverting in order to stay free
brings forebodings of failing
Forebodings of loss of father
Ironic father
formal
powerless to give freedom
Idea that God is powerless
Forebodings of losing freedom and self-worth
Powerless to find the values in life and freedom
Powerless to remain independent from father
They are too weak and powerless to keep their independence from their
father. They have a gloomy feeling that something terrible is going to happen
that will make them too weak to stay free of their father. This can lead to a
feeling of having no self-worth. Their lack of power to be themselves leads to
a feeling of having no real value for themselves. This can lead to a distant
attitude, questioning
the values in life. They can become very ironic about religion and
morals, questioning the motives and morals of others.
They have a feeling of being too powerless to be in control of their own
life and personality. They can try to persuade their father to empower them.
But he often has no real power in helping them.
Their too weak and powerless to be able to give them strength and
autonomy, although he can hide this behind irony and distance.
Their father can be a weak person, too weak to stay independent. He has
no real self-control, although on the outside he may look like he is in
control. His irony and distant way of behaviour may give
him the air of being in control. But it's a mask that covers his feeling
of having no real power and the least force will make him give up his autonomy.
By dodging all the real issues he tries to hide his
lack of power. Their father may get into a gloomy state of fearing
something terrible is about to happen, without knowing what.
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