[Jan Scholten]
Fehlende Kraft eigene Autonomie zu wahren (gegen Vater), führt zu drohendem Verlust des Selbstwertgefühls; daraus evtl. distanzierte Haltung zu allen Werten im Leben (Ironie + Infragestellen
von Moral und religiösen Motivationen); evtl. schwacher Vater ohne Autonomie/ohne Selbstkontrolle, der sich selbst + Pat. nicht helfen kann.
Analysis:
Powerless
to remain independent from father
Powerless
to keep independence and self-worth
Powerless
to give meaning freely
Father: helps
to keep their autonomy
too weak to keep his autonomy
has only formal independence
has only formal self-control
in a gloomy state
diverting in order to stay free
brings forebodings of failing
Forebodings of loss of father
Ironic father
formal
powerless
to give freedom
Idea that
God is powerless
Forebodings
of losing freedom and self-worth
Powerless
to find the values in life and freedom
Powerless
to remain independent from father
They are
too weak and powerless to keep their independence from their father. They have
a gloomy feeling that something terrible is going to happen that will make them
too weak to stay free of their father. This can lead to a feeling of having no
self-worth. Their lack of power to be themselves leads to a feeling of having
no real value for themselves. This can lead to a distant attitude, questioning
the values in life. They can become very ironic about religion and morals, questioning
the motives and morals of others.
They have a
feeling of being too powerless to be in control of their own life and
personality. They can try to
persuade
their father to empower them. But he often has no real power in helping them.
Their too weak
and
powerless to be able to give them strength and autonomy, although he can hide
this behind irony and
distance.
Their
father can be a weak person, too weak to stay independent. He has no real
self-control, although on the outside he may look like he is in control. His
irony and distant way of behaviour may give him the air of being in control.
But it's a mask that covers his feeling of having no real power and the least
force will make him give up his autonomy. By dodging all the real issues he
tries to hide his lack of power. Their father may get into a gloomy state of
fearing something terrible is about to happen, without knowing what.
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